oh absolutely i meant it and yes it was racist. i don't deny that. c'mon, all those creepy choir children, remember? when they were jumping around the stage with those creepy smiles singing that song? plus it's even creepier when you've got randy jackson with pounds of diamonds around his neck walking around a dirt village passing out schoolbags to some kids who probably just want a cookie or maybe a vaccination. okay sure, how else can that scenario play out? it would be awkward in any situation except if randy stripped down, sold his clothes to buy food and passed bowls of stew out butt-naked to everyone in the village, but then it would be awkward in a different way. they've got to do it somehow, and it's gonna probably come off a little self-righteous and hypocritical, but the end goal is a good one so there's nothing else to do but poke fun at it and then say "good job."
but anyway, why is "racism" a negative word? because it's been given that slant through history and the word "racism" itself has taken on much more meaning than merely the semantics of the word alone. because really, what it boils down to is just xenophobia... fear or contempt of that which is unknown. so why isn't that word so hated? not that it should, it should not be a negative word. evolutionarily speaking, xenophobia kept you alive, if you weren't familiar with something, being cautious kept you from getting into somewhere you shouldn't. Of course, too much of that isn't good either (you'd miss out on new plants to eat or things to learn from new people), but that doesn't mean that initial fear was a bad thing.
likewise, racism is just categorization, if you're a caveman living with your clan and some new tribe comes strolling into your nut and berry patch then you'd better be wary and learn what you can about those guys... and once you have, wouldn't you try to apply what you've learned to each tribemember you see so that you know how to deal with them? a more current example, i work with a large population of people from the marshall islands, i've learned some general traits about their culture and that has helped me to work with them and their families and taught me what to expect and what not to expect from them. Does that apply to every single one of them? Of course not, but it's a good place to start isn't it? c'mon this happens a million times a day, whether it be skin color, nationality, culture, wearing glasses, having a tattoo, smiling without your teeth, or walking an ugly puppy, judgments are made based on certain traits because those traits MAY lead you to some useful generalizations. categorization helps people get through the day... going beyond categorization helps people get from day to day. should you stop at those snap judgments? of course not, but we can't deny that they happen and we shouldn't deny that they're necessarily a bad thing.
my pet peeve is how touchy society has gotten about "racism" and "fighting" racism. my philosophy is don't make it such a huge part of your life. does it exist? absolutely. is it bad? not the point. the point is that it's a part of human society and cannot be extinguished, so just learn to live with it and if you don't like it, then don't let it affect you. make it a neutral word. as harmless as "table" or "walking." people are different, this is true, if not in one way then definately in another.
therefore... i think those african kids are weirdos. are they starving? i guess so, but that doesn't make them any less weird.
that being said... one could argue, well if it was american children would that be different? again, not the point, are there starving people many places in the world? of course, all over the place. american idol chose to give support to africa. if they had chosen the poverty stricken children of papua new guinea i'd probably be saying "now i have to watch those papua new guinean weirdos."
am i unsympathetic? duh, how long have you guys known me? i've got plenty more unsympathetic theories if you'd like to hear them, but why share those? no need to, just my thoughts (probably not very good ones at that, but most of them deal with natural selection and the way nature always finds a way to adapt to maintain homeostatis) and they will stay within my brain, where they belong and where they will stay. but i take offense to being called insensitive and uneducated. then again, those are just words too so why should i get bent out of shape out it? i guess i shouldn't, so i won't. anyway... jason castro!? are you kidding me? ewww... but i did hear those rumors about david's dad, no wonder he looks so scared after he's done singing and stands before the judges, haha, he's scared he's gonna get whipped.
one thing i will say about "idol gives back," it's about time someone in america got all these great music stars and actors, etc to do something together. aside from awards shows (which are huge ego-fests anyway), this is the only media event that can draw so many stars and acts together, and to top that bring them together for a good cause. i've always thought, if america has such great musicians and stuff, then why don't we have things like this more often? like in japan how they have that red & white songfest every year, why can't americans do stuff like that? because we're all too individualistic? so it takes something like this to make it happen, well at least it's happening, right?
ps - i love how they brought on the "so you think you can dance?" contestants too, i like that show too, they have really likable people i think. in general i think i like seeing past contestants of this show and other shows, it shows that getting voted off of these shows doesn't doom them to obscurity for the rest of their lives (although y'know perhaps it really should for some of them...).
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You lost me at Randy stripping down. That'll be weird. And wrong.
I didn't mean to call you uneducated. My bad. I was saying that the comment can be viewed that way. And I guess uneducated wasn't the word I should've used. But I still can't think of the word I wanted to use.
But I do wonder what your thoughts would be if you lived elsewhere. But then that's stupid too, because all of thinking and thoughts would be different if we lived elsewhere.
but moving on...
Okay, here's the deal.
David A, you're "lil bro" or frogger, whatever you want to call him, he's good. It's not fair that he's that good. BUT, he's boring! he goes and sings a ballad! And Simon took a shot at his dad a while ago (something like, 'there's no way you could've chosen that song.')
Jason on the other hand, not strong as a voice, but he's more fun to watch than liplicking david. and he gambles a little more, jason does.
David A choose to be safe. and safe is boring.
I hope david A doesn't win.
all the more now because of you =P
I met this guy at the bar last night who was really cool. he was asking all concerned about the whole "haole" thing and how white people get treated differently in hawaii. i was all like, well if you're an asshole of course we're gonna treat you as such. he asked if i was from that part of the island where they hate white people. i said no i'm from a suburb of all asians, which is kinda true. haha he was cool though. my friend (from oregon) who was there with me just got back from house-sitting in hawaii for like 6 months or something. he's all like yeah "i'm kama'aina now" and stuff like that, he's totally a great guy with the aloha spirit. i think that's what it comes down to.
now talking about a race as a whole, without singling out individuals, maybe that is racism. i dunno. i've got these co-workers who are from africa. at first i thought they were hard-working and dedicated because they all had two jobs (to send money back to africa) but now i see them as people who just do their job and don't really care about it. they are doing it for the (little) money. it seems like a bad way of seeing it but there are at least 5 who i see this way and none who are actually caring for the patients. they don't abuse them but at the same time it's just a job. maybe it's a cultural thing. maybe i'm overly affectionate and attached to these sweet old people. maybe i'm an ass. maybe they're always just tired from working those jobs. maybe i'm blessed (okay, i definitely AM BLESSED!).
judging people is so natural. mentally you need to categorize things and people, your mind is constantly attentive to details such as color, height, hair style, ugliness, tattoos etc. i do anyway. the thing i think that is worse than judging someone's looks is judging their character or personal life. when you are like "oh that's a horrible hairstyle" vs. "that person is going to hell b/c they are gay" or something like that. that's worse than racism.
something funny to think about - one of my former co-workers from ethiopia opened an ethiopian restaurant! when you think ethiopian what do you think of? i think of "starvin marvin"! so what do they serve there cause there isn't any food in ethiopia. lol well actually i've had ethiopian food and it IS GOOD!
i think it's great that they are giving back, however they do it. rich people/stars/regular people should give more. there are so many people without these "freedoms" we have, no access to clean water or food, no internet (**GASP!**), no american idol, no education, no hope for the future, no family, no limbs, no medical treatment, and many of those things we take for granted everyday. i'm not willing to give all that up because i was born into this life and will do all i can with it. eventually i want to go to africa and help those weirdos. :P another thing that bothers me is that although their situation is pretty dire and a bigger scale, the problems we have in this country are also immense. poverty, hunger (me), illiteracy, meth, hiv, crime, apathy, and the increasing gap between rich and poor.
i've read a few books by che guevara, most interesting is "motorcycle diaries" which is also a movie now. he was a marxist revolutionary, guerilla and a doctor. he traveled all over south america with his friend on a motorcycle when finishing med school. although he was from argentina he believed that north, central and south america was "all one america" and was very moved by the poverty he saw in his travels. his revolutionary feelings were driven by this opposition to inequality and the only way to fix it was revolution and getting rid of capitalism.
i didn't comment on AI this week but i still like david a and jason castro. even though he looks like that crazy dog, he's got a sweet voice and is cute. it's hard to do justice to bruddah iz's song but he did pretty well. kristy lee is from oregon and in the paper the other day there was an article that said "STOP VOTING FOR KRISTY LEE"! so funny. i think syesha might be going.
I don't watch idol, so most of your posts don't make sense, but you know I always have opinions on racism and the general social outcries that go with it. You have a point that EVERYONE makes assumptions, and maybe initially that might be ok, but I think realizing that 1) It doesn't make you a bad person is important, and 2) We should try to get past those assumptions to better get along with one another. Racism is dangerous if it prevents us from ever understanding one another.
Also, evolution, or the belief that only the strong survive is something I sort of disagree with. Does that mean we should ignore the weakest of society and make them fend for themselves? Am i supposed to let my autistic cousin die because that's the natural order of things?
Yes, Matt's comment was a little insensitive. That being said, what he's really talking about isn't racism. Yes, he's stereotyping a cultural group, but we all do that. As long as your stereotypes don't stop you from getting to know the person, then there's nothing wrong with it. It's only rascism when it does. I once had this kid who was a Pacific Islander from some island who was referred for speech services. Academically he was doing fine, but the teacher referred him because he didn't really talk to her a lot. Was it a speech and language issue? No. It was a cultural issue. His culture believed that children were best seen but not heard. Learning about his culture as a whole helped us work with the family.
I have a friend who's from a part of New York where there is a very small Asian population. It was so small that she could tell me exactly how many Asians were in her high school - 2. She came to Hawaii a year ago and initially was frustrated because she had a difficult time communicating with us Asian folk. Thankfully she's a fairly quick learner and is doing fine now, but we had a discussion a few months back about the Asian culture. She said she was having a hard time at work because any time anyone had an issue with what she was doing, they wouldn't tell her. They would smile at her and nod and then turn around and grumble to their friends. Being from New York, she was used to people telling her to her face when she bugged them. So she generalized and decided that Asian people aren't as open about their feelings as Caucasian people are. She also told me that I didn't quite fit that stereotype. Did that offend me? Not in the slightest. She made a generalization about Asian people, but took the time to get to know me as an individual. And really, her understanding this stereotype helped her learn how to communicate with the people in my school.
It's the same thing with the Hawaii attitude towards haoles. I have no problem with haole people. I don't like the attitude associated with haoles and I have no problems saying so. I don't think it's offensive. Now if I looked at my New York friend and decided that because she was haole she must have the haole attitude and therefore I could not like her, then that would be another story.
As for the evolution thing, am I missing something? Survival of the fittest is how we evolved and while a person with autism should of course not just die, they are going to have a harder time surviving in our world than a person without autism would. However, in an ideal world we would not just let the person flounder. In today's society these people are not just left to fend for themselves. That is why Matt and I are speech-language pathologists. I like to think we as people have evolved to help those weaker than us. If not, Matt and I would be out of a job as we only work with people who are weaker than us. It's our job to give these people the tools to survive. And I'm not sure how a person having autism quite fits in this discussion, as autism IS a diagnosis. A person is diagnosed with autism because they have certain behavioral characteristics. They are not autistic if they do not have these characteristics and it's not offensive for me to say that people with autism are going to have poor social skills because that is one of the hallmarks of autism. They wouldn't be diagnosed with autism if they had appropriate social skills. It's not really the same as someone saying, well, Kathleen must be quiet because she's Asian. That being said, sorry, I realize that was probably just as insensitive of me as Matt's African weirdos comment as this is obviously a sensitive subject with you, but I truly was just confused as to how it applies.
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